From the book with this title by Dr. Henry Cloud and Dr. John Townsend
- It’s selfish to have my needs met
- Guilt and shame are good for me
- “Shoulds” are good
- I just need to give it to the Lord
- If I’m spiritual enough, I will have no pain or sinfulness
- If I know the truth, I will grow spiritually
- If I change my behavior, I will grow spiritually and emotionally
- If I make right choices, I will grow spiritually
- Just doing the right thing is more important that why I do it
- If I have God, I don’t need people
- I should leave the past behind
- One day, I’ll be finished with recovery
